He is grumpy cuz we are here now. (Update)

So we have been having lots of conversations lately, which is wonderful.  It was long overdue.  We said things that we have been keeping inside and that have been eating away at us for a long time, maybe even years.  It’s been going pretty well.  Sometimes we get defensive.  Sometimes we get frustrated.  But really we have done a great job keeping our tempers in check.  Yay us.

We’ve talked about so much.  It is all spinning around in my head and I want to type it out.  If I wait until I have time to type it all, I will never do it.  So bits & pieces will have to do as they come to mind and I have the time.

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I told him that kid2 said “he is grumpy because we are here now.

He didn’t seem to think it was as big a deal as I did.  I asked him why he wasn’t more upset by it.  He said he couldn’t imagine that she actually meant it the way I took it.   I said she did and told him more of the conversation.  I told him it made me sick in the stomach to know she felt that way.  He said yea, that’s not good if she really thinks that.

He was quiet after that.  I don’t know what is going on in his mind.  I hope that he took it to heart and remembers it and uses it to interact better with our kids.  Time will tell I guess.

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This blog is my personal journal. I am trying hard to save my marriage. No, I am trying to build a great marriage. In case you haven't heard, marriage is HARD!
I am fighting back against anxiety & panic attacks. This is year 5 of this adventure. I am also codependent. I am an ACOA. Fun, Fun. I am trying hard to become a better me.
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