Happy to Clean Out The Fridge

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He just said to me –
“Hey sometime today could you clean out the fridge.  I know you’ve been busy, but it really needs done.”

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Why is this awesome? Because it is much better than –
“This fridge needs cleaned out! ” while he angrily empties the contents onto the counter in a big pile/mess for me to deal with.

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These words were different.  Respectful.  Not angry.  Nice.

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1 Comment (+add yours?)

  1. rootstoblossom
    Jul 19, 2012 @ 22:40:28

    I totally understand and get the significance of this. Respect and not angry is definitely nice! Especially when not the norm.

    Reply

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